• Addicts will turn how you approach a disagreement back around on you because they can only understand “responsibility” as coming from outside themselves
  • Paranoid people believe others are out to get them because they narcissistically fantasize that it should be true
  • Gender dysphorics are obsessed with how they are perceived because they struggle to find the locus of expression of their own identity
  • Fundamentalists are intolerant of others because they hate their own inner lack of conviction in what they think are supposed to believe